The Real Reason You're Always Tired (It's Not Sleep)

The Real Reason You're Always Tired (It's Not Sleep)

You’re Not Imagining It

You get enough sleep - or at least you think you do. You drink water. You exercise a few times a week. But by 2 p.m., you’re dragging. By 7 p.m., you’re useless. And the weekends don’t even fix it anymore.

Sound familiar? Here’s the thing: the most common causes of chronic fatigue have almost nothing to do with how many hours you sleep.

Let me walk through the actual culprits - most of which almost no one talks about.


Symptom Check: What Kind of Tired Are You?

Before diagnosing, we need to distinguish between types of fatigue, because the cause determines the fix:

Type Feels Like Likely Root Cause
Crashing after meals Foggy, heavy, unfocused Blood sugar instability
Wired but tired Can’t sleep despite exhaustion Cortisol dysregulation
Low motivation, flat mood No drive, not sad exactly Dopamine/iron deficiency
Morning fatigue despite full night Sluggish until noon Poor sleep architecture
Afternoon crash only Fine in AM, dead by 2 PM Adenosine buildup, caffeine timing

Root Cause #1: Blood Sugar Rollercoaster

This is the most common overlooked driver of daytime fatigue, and it’s almost never mentioned in “how to fix your energy” articles.

What happens: You eat something - even something “healthy” - that spikes blood glucose rapidly. Insulin overshoots. Blood sugar crashes below baseline. Your body signals distress. You feel exhausted, foggy, and often irritable.

The fix:

  • Eat protein and fat before carbohydrates at meals
  • Avoid eating carbohydrates alone as a snack
  • Walk for 10 minutes after meals (reduces post-meal glucose spike by ~30% per CGM data)

💡 A continuous glucose monitor (CGM) like Levels or Nutrisense is the fastest way to identify whether this is your issue. Two weeks of data will show you more than years of guessing.


Root Cause #2: Cortisol Pattern Disruption

Cortisol is supposed to peak in the morning (giving you a natural wake signal) and taper throughout the day. In chronically stressed people, this rhythm inverts - low in the morning, elevated at night.

Signs this is you:

  • Exhausted when you wake up no matter how much you slept
  • Wired and alert after 9 p.m.
  • Dependent on caffeine to feel human before noon

The fix:

  • Get bright light in your eyes within 30 minutes of waking (no sunglasses, no screens - actual outdoor light)
  • Cut caffeine before noon for 2 weeks and reassess
  • Reduce cognitive load in the first hour of the day

Root Cause #3: Iron or Ferritin Deficiency

Low ferritin (stored iron) is dramatically underdiagnosed - particularly in women, vegetarians, and frequent exercisers - and is one of the top reversible causes of chronic fatigue.

What makes it tricky: Your iron levels can appear “normal” on a standard panel while your ferritin is depleted. You have to specifically ask for ferritin.

Optimal ferritin range: Most functional medicine practitioners target 70–150 ng/mL. Many labs flag deficiency only below 12.

The fix: Get a full iron panel + ferritin tested. If low, work with a physician on dietary changes or supplementation (iron bisglycinate is well-tolerated). Don’t self-supplement without testing - excess iron has its own risks.


Root Cause #4: Adenosine Buildup + Caffeine Timing

Adenosine is a neural metabolite that builds up during wakefulness and creates sleep pressure. Caffeine works by blocking adenosine receptors - but it doesn’t eliminate the adenosine, it just delays the signal.

The problem: If you drink caffeine too early, you may be blocking adenosine before your brain has cleared the overnight buildup via cortisol. When the caffeine wears off, the adenosine hits all at once.

The fix:

  • Delay your first caffeine by 90–120 minutes after waking
  • Cut caffeine completely after 1 p.m. (caffeine has a 6-hour half-life)
  • This one change alone dramatically improves afternoon energy for most people

Root Cause #5: Poor Sleep Architecture (Not Just Duration)

You can sleep 8 hours and still be exhausted if your slow-wave and REM sleep are disrupted. Common culprits:

  • Alcohol - even one drink significantly reduces REM sleep quality
  • Late eating - digestion competes with sleep repair processes
  • Screen light before bed - delays melatonin onset by 1–3 hours
  • Cold/hot room - optimal sleep temperature is 65–68°F (18–20°C)

Your Diagnostic Action Plan

Start here - in this order:

  1. Get bloodwork: Full thyroid panel, ferritin, vitamin D, B12, fasting glucose, and insulin
  2. Delay caffeine by 90 minutes for one week and note the difference
  3. Track glucose with a CGM for 14 days and identify your highest-spike foods
  4. Fix your light exposure - morning sunlight within 30 min of waking, no bright light after 9 p.m.
  5. Eliminate alcohol completely for 2 weeks and measure sleep quality (use (Oura Ring)[https://ouraring.com/] or (Whoop)[https://whoop.com/])

The Bottom Line

Fatigue is almost always downstream of something fixable. It just usually isn’t the thing you’ve been told to fix. Start with blood sugar stability and caffeine timing - those two interventions alone produce dramatic changes in 60–70% of people who implement them consistently.

The rest is refinement. But you have to get the foundation right first.